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Episode 61 · 20 min

7 Facts About Crating That You Absolutely Need To Know

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There are few, if any, aspects of separation anxiety that create more mythology than crating.

I see way too much muddled and confusing advice, and I can see that many of you struggle to get your head around whether or not to crate your dog.

To clear things, up this episode covers the seven facts about crating that you absolutely need to know.

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I don't think I'll ever stop talking about crates as long as I do this podcast because

it seems like there's just an ongoing confusion about the role of crates in separation anxiety

training. Just this week I posted on social media that crates, if we're not careful, can

be a really abusive and unethical solution for dogs. Dogs who hate crates hate hate being

locked in a crate. Anyway, so I posted about that and a few people commented, OK, so you're

telling us what not to do, but why don't you tell us what to do instead? That's why in

this episode I'm going to revisit crating. I want to talk about the facts of crating

because there are so many myths and I'll give you some tips on how to crate train your dog

safely and ethically. All right, let's dive in.

Hello and welcome to the Be Right Back separation anxiety podcast. Hi, I'm Julie Naismith, dog

trainer, author and full on separation anxiety geek. I've helped thousands of dogs overcome

separation anxiety with my books, my online programs, my trainer certification and my

separation anxiety training app. And this podcast is all about sharing my tips and tricks

to help you teach your dog how to be happy at home alone, too.

Let's start with the facts about crating because there are way too many myths out there. The

first thing I need you to know, so fact number one, is that crating doesn't fix separation

anxiety. Despite what you'll hear, despite what many trainers who don't know separation

anxiety will tell you, crating doesn't fix separation anxiety. It used to be generally

held, a generally held view that crating does stop a dog from panicking when left. Well,

stop a dog panicking? I'm not sure if the people recommending crate training even really

ever understood what was going on with a dog who was left. Those people, that is, who recommended

crate training for fixing separation anxiety. Because the thing is, when a dog who has separation

anxiety is left alone, what's going on isn't bad behaviour. So if your dog chews when you

leave it, or if your dog chews, then maybe barks when you go, he's not being bad. What's

happening is he's got a fear of being left. So he panics. And the behaviour that happens

as a result comes from how he feels. He's scared, and somehow trying to escape, or maybe

barking or whatever it is he does, is making him feel better. He's doing it, not because

he's trying to be a bad dog, because he's not a bad dog. He's doing it because it's just a

response to his fear. And on top of that fear of being left, we find that so many dogs who

don't like being left alone have a phobia of the crate. So they especially hate it when

they are crated when they're left. Do we know why so many dogs who have separation anxiety

also hate to be crated? We don't really know why. But my theory is that, if I had to guess,

I'd say the crate offers or the crate gives an extra sense of isolation to the dog. So

they're already scared of being alone, and now there's this extra sense of being alone.

And maybe, and I think this is often the case too, a dog who has separation anxiety has

been crated in the past, because we're all told to crate dogs with separation anxiety.

And so he's come to associate the crate with scary alone time. So it's kind of a double

whammy thing. But what are you going to do if you've got a dog who is chewing the walls

or ripping up the floorboards? What are you going to do? Because a crate seems like the

only answer, doesn't it? You've got to stop your dog from getting to the floorboards.

You've got to stop him damaging himself. You've got to stop the destruction that's happening

to your house. But you also want to stop the severe physical risk that's happening. Here's

the thing. Panicking dogs, and I've seen this way too often, will often damage themselves

even worse, even further, trying to escape the crate, even so-called anxiety crates.

The memory of that panic of trying to escape is lasting. So what can happen is, not only

have you caused or potentially created the risk of your dog harming itself in a crate,

but even if that doesn't happen, you've created a potential psychological impact. Your dog

has a memory of the panic that's really hard for it to lose. And by the way, massive side

note, I am not anti-crate. No, no, no. No, I am not that person who goes on social, who

jumps on a podcast and says, crates are bad. I am not that person. If you came to my house,

you would see, last count, I'm just counting it up in my head right now, I think we have

about six crates in this house. And that doesn't include the crates that we've folded up and

no longer use, because crates are invaluable tools. They are really helpful for containing

excitable dogs who try to knock over people when they come through the door. And they're

really handy for things like travel, for containing dogs while they're at the vet or the groomer.

There are alternatives when they're at the vet or the groomer, but sometimes it's helpful

to have a dog who loves going into his crate and doesn't mind staying there when they're

in that different environment. And of course, they can really help house training. And that's

why I also talk a lot about house training with and without crates, because I know that

so many of you want to house train with a crate. So I cover house training with and

without crates in both of my books. But to an anxious dog, a crate is not the safe haven

that everybody says it is. To an anxious dog who hates a crate, closing the door is just

a form of punishment. I know it's awful, but that is what's going on. Just because

of the fact number two that I want to cover today, and it links back to what I just said

there about crates being a safe haven, because that view is really well established. It seems

like that's unchallenged. Dogs like a safe haven. They love to den. But here's my second

crate fact. Just because dogs do seem to like to den, it doesn't mean to say that they will

love the crate and see it as their safe space. Okay, yeah, so in all the wildlife documentaries,

we see wolves denning, we see them loving kind of huddling in a group in their den or

even on their own. So it seems natural to conclude that dogs like to den too. And I

don't think that is too much of a leap of knowledge or leap of faith. Dogs do seem to

like kind of, you know, denning down for want of a better word, but they do seem to

like snuggling in small spaces. Many of them do. They do seem to like seeking out those

little dark, cosy corners in the house. But what we can do with dogs who want to den is

we just keep the door open. So let's give our dogs a choice because there's a massive

difference between denning down in an open crate because it's cosy and it's snuggly and

they feel really, really comfortable in there and closing a door. Closing the door on the

crate changes it from something that dogs love and that makes them feel safe to a prison.

Dens don't have doors. Those wildlife documentaries we see of wolves, you don't see anybody coming

along and closing the door on them. What would happen if we did do that? More likely than

not they would panic. So dogs, if you want to create a safe space with a crate, do it.

But make sure that your dog is free to enter and exit at will. That's if you've got a dog

who's crate-phobic. If you've taken the time to get your dog to love its crate, and it

can be done, then of course you can close the door because your dog's not going to panic

when you close the door. But if you want to create a safe space for a dog who doesn't

love a crate, just leave the door open and let them decide whether to come or go and

whether to use that as their den. And how do you get a dog to love its crate? Well you're

going to use a fear-free crate training plan. It can take a long time with a crate-phobic

dog to get that dog to love its crate, but it can be done. I want to touch on dogs who

hate things like thunder and fireworks too because, again, you'll hear that the advice

is to create a safe space with a crate. And again, it is true. They do often seem to like

going into smaller spaces. I think a dog who is frightened of thunder or fireworks, it

feels less noisy, it feels further away from the scary stimulus when they're down in a

crate. And, and I certainly see this in my own dog who hates thunder and fireworks text,

he hates the light associated with those things. So for him, a dark crate is a great place

to be. But I always leave the door open for him. He's a dog who loves his crate. I mean,

loves, loves, loves his crate. And he's got no separation anxiety whatsoever. But when

he goes to his crate in a storm, I leave the door open. And the reason I do that, and by

the way, I'm sat by him when he does that, because we're doing lots of counter conditioning

as the noise continues on. But I want to make sure that he doesn't get so panicked that

he suddenly wants to escape. And now he feels trapped. So the door stays open and I stay

with him. I let him choose whether to go in and out of his crate. And that's how you make

a crate safe for a dog who's in a panic. Just leave the door open and let them choose.

Okay, a third fact. And this is to clear up a big confusion about dogs who seem to be

okay in their crates, say, at night. But as soon as you try to leave and pop them in their

crate, they struggle. They hate it. And that's really confusing. If this is your dog, you

might be just scratching your head as to why he seems fine in his crate at night. But as

soon, that minute that you try and crate him to leave, he just loses it. He freaks

out. Well, just know this is a really common scenario. And for whatever reason, some dogs

have decided that they're okay in their crate at a certain time, but not at another time.

It makes no sense to us, but it makes total sense to them. If getting your dog comfortable

in a crate when you leave, if you want to get your dog to be comfortable in a crate

when you go out, then take comfort from the fact that if your dog can sleep through the

night in a crate, he's showing you he can be okay in a crate. In that context, yes,

not during the day yet, not when you leave yet, but he has shown that he can be okay

in a crate. He just needs to learn that crate confidence that he's got overnight in other

Okay, my fourth fact for you is about anxiety crates, so-called indestructible crates. And

what I want you to know is that these are not the answer. Anxiety crates aren't the

solution. If you Google separation anxiety, or you've popped it in the search box on Amazon,

you might have seen indestructible crates pop up because they are purported, they are

marketed as a fix for separation anxiety. The idea being that they are constructed so

that the dog can't escape, and if the dog can't escape, then it will get over its separation

anxiety, which makes me scratch my head. I'm even scratching my head now at that thought.

But so many problems with this. For a start, it's not changing how your dog feels about

being alone. It might stop the destruction of your home. It might, if you're lucky, stop

the destruction of your dog, destruction of your dog. What I mean by that is it might

stop your dog harming themselves, although some dogs still manage to harm themselves

in these so-called indestructible, harm-free crates. And even if they're not physically

damaging themselves, even if they give up because the crate is just too tough for them,

there's a psychological damage that we talked about earlier in this podcast. So locking

a panicking dog in a cell-like crate isn't the fix to separation anxiety. No matter what

anybody says on the internet, it is not going to make your dog feel better about being home

alone.

Okay, fifth fact, you can train without, a house train without a crate. You absolutely

can. So yes, it would be great if you could get your dog or your puppy to be really comfortable

in a crate, because it does help house training. Just confining a puppy to a smaller space

speeds house training. But it's not necessary. It absolutely is a great tool, but it isn't

necessary. It's not the only answer to house training. And plenty, in plenty of countries

around the world, people don't use crates to house train. What do you have to do instead?

You have to be way more vigilant. And you definitely have to create a smaller space

in your room or in your house, because being vigilant, you need to be able to keep your

eye on your puppy every single second. So you need to know where they are, which is

why a crate helps. But if you're not going to use a crate, you need to create a smaller

space in which you and your puppy hang out. So you do have to do some management like

that. But you can still house train. And in fact, I house trained all my dogs without

crates. And I probably would do it again, because I don't find it difficult. It's a

bit more laborious. You do have to be on your guard. But it's doable. And why wouldn't I

use a crate? For no other reason than actually, I like hanging out with my dogs when they

were puppies. So they were kind of always hanging out with us anyway. My dog Tex absolutely

loves his crates. Percy's behind in a crate now. It took me a long time though to do that.

And India can't get enough of being in her crate. But if I did it all over again, I would

not worry for a minute about having to crate them for house training.

Okay, another fact for you, you don't have to crate your puppy to prevent destruction.

Because I know that with your puppy or your dog, who's stressed and destroying when you

go out, it just seems like the only way to stop that is to crate, right? It makes sense.

If you put them in the crate, you're going to stop the chewing and the destroying and

the soiling. But you've got to remember that the reason that your dog is destroying, unless

it's kind of normal puppy getting up to find the misty stuff. But if it's a dog who's really

anxious or a puppy that's really anxious about being left, and they're destroying as a result

of that, the minute you stop the anxiety, that behaviour stops. It can seem counterintuitive,

we see the destruction, we want to crate, it seems obvious, but actually the crate then

makes it worse. So we let the puppy or the dog out of the crate, despite the fact that

they destroy the house, but stop the emotion that drives that behaviour. And you stop the

outcome, you stop the destruction. And if you're going to do that, you're going to work

on home alone training, where you're going to suspend absences and gradually get your

dog used to being without you when you go out. And that changing emotion is what prevents

that drive to destroy stuff. And by the way, if you're listening to this and thinking,

well, my dog doesn't destroy when I'm gone, so maybe that means I haven't got separation

anxiety. Not all dogs by any means, not all dogs with separation anxiety destroy. They're

all kind of unique, and they all do different things when they're upset. Destruction is

just what some dogs with separation anxiety do. Other dogs with separation anxiety do

different things. Remember that when you do separation anxiety training, when you do those

safe departures, you're only going out for an amount of time that your dog can handle.

You're not going out long enough to cause him to panic and freak and so he won't get

up to the previous destructive behaviours that he showed when he was panicking and freaking out.

Plus, you'll be watching him like a hawk. So you don't have to worry. Once you start

the separation anxiety training, you can stop worrying about the chewing and the destroying,

and then hopefully that helps you feel more comfortable not crating.

And even if you're still a little bit anxious, and I kind of get that, even if you think

watching them the whole time and coming back as soon as you think there's anything

going to happen, even if that doesn't give you enough comfort, then you can always create a

safe space in a room or part of your house that's puppy-proof, that's dog-proof. So

you use extended exercise pens, you block off parts of the furniture or the door or

whatever it is that you don't want him to get into. It's much easier to protect stuff

than to lock your panicking dog in. All right. And then finally, my final, final, final fact

on crates is you can still do separation anxiety training in a crate. All right. So I could have

just skipped all the previous facts and said, yeah, you can still do separation anxiety training in

a crate. It's just a lot more work. So that's why I left this fact to last. It's always my preference

to get a panicky dog out of a crate to see how the training goes with the dog out of the crate

than to do training in the crate, than to do separation anxiety training that is in a crate.

It just takes longer, especially for a dog who is already having issues with the crate. Not only

then do we have to help him feel better about alone time, but we've got to help him feel better

about the crate as well. So it's not that you can't do it. I'm just all for efficiency and

making your life as easy as possible because I want you to get your dog over separation anxiety

as quickly as you can. And adding the crate into the mix, especially with a dog who's crate phobic,

it's just going to take more time. But if you do want to do it, what you need to do

is get your puppy or your dog to love its crate first. And then what you can do is work on the

home alone training. How do you get a puppy or a dog to love its crate? Well, the headline is you

go in really short steps. It's very similar to separation anxiety training for that. But we do

use food for crate training. We create an amazing association with the crate, build up duration

without the door closed, then with the door closed until we can get a nice amount of duration

with your puppy or dog in the crate, door closed, you in the house, but not visible.

And once you get to that stage, then you know you're ready to start departure training

with your dog in a crate. Okay, I will talk about crates again. I just know I will.

But I hope this episode has helped clear up some crate confusion. And if you still have

questions on crates, remember, you can always pop into my free Facebook groups and ask there.

And you can dig out copies of my books. You can find them both on Amazon. Be right back the

original and be right back the puppy version. Both go into crate training in some detail.

That's it from me for this episode, but keep training and good luck out there.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode of the Be Right Back Separation Anxiety podcast.

If you want to find out more about how I can help you further, head over to julienasmith.com.

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Thanks so much. Good luck with that training and bye for now.

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