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Episode 39: 5 Big SA Lockdown Myths

The Door is a Bore

A 10-step door desensitization game. The goal: make the door so boring that your dog doesn’t even bother to watch you walk toward it.

Before you start

  • Repeat each step 10 times, or until your dog is uninterested. (Watching and following at a normal pace is okay.)
  • If the dog shows any signs of anxiety, tension, or stress, go back to an easier step for a while longer.
  • Each time you start a practice session, begin with a warm-up — a previous step or two where they’re really comfortable.

Push to a harder step when:

10 repetitions done AND no signs of worry or distress.

Drop to an easier step when:

You see even slight signs of worry or distress. Go back immediately.

The 10 steps

1

Walk to door but stop 6 feet short, return

2

Walk to door but stop 3 feet short, return

3

Walk to door, touch door, return

4

Walk to door, turn/depress door handle, return

5

Walk to door, touch lock, return

6

Walk to door, turn lock, return

7

Walk to door, open and close door, return

8

Walk to door, open and step outside (keep door open), step back

9

Walk to door, open and step outside, close door, open & step back

10

Walk to door, open and step outside, close door for count of 1, open & step back

Next steps

Once your dog can handle step 10, build up in one-second increments. When you can get to 5 seconds with the door closed, switch to a 5-second duration session on the app.

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Episode 39: 5 Big Separation Anxiety Lockdown Myths →
Julie Naismith

Written by Julie Naismith

Dog separation anxiety specialist. 15 years of experience, 100,000+ guardians helped, author of four books, and creator of the Be Right Back program.

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